Would we know a different way if we saw one? Something besides leadership?
Our neural associations regarding leaders (the ones hardwired into our brains) are strong. They come not only from our own experience but from the media and the culture we live in. The belief that nothing good happens without a leader sets us up to attribute all good things to leaders.
Our belief that leaders make things happen leaves us wishing for better leaders. We sort people as to whether they are leaders or not leaders. “Not leaders” are discarded into the “wait until you are told what to do.” pile while we focus on making the leaders, well “better leaders.”
Distinctions
They say naming something gives you power over it. 
A rose by any other name is still a rose. But calling all other flowers “roses” doesn't make them so.
There’s power in seeing differences; being able to use what you see.
A poisonous mushroom from a button, a morel, a crimari. One warbler from another as they migrate south. A good bacterium from a harmful one.
Being able to guide your boat by the stars. Read a face for cues to meaning. Recognize an investment when you see one.
Distinctions bring power, joy, even money. They build a skilled life.
So look carefully. Your ability to see matters.
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Seeing everything through the lens of leadership prevents us from identifying what else might be going on. If you could relax your focus and bring into view the research that indicates what we focus on influences what happens e.g., the global consciousness research, how might it change your expectations or the way you organize?
“Leading” is based on a Newtonian view of the world that assumes influence only goes one way. In contrast, “co-creating” is based on relationships, reflecting our quantum inter-connection and the mutual influence we actually have on each other and the results we get. What if we entered into more conversations, e.g., dialogue, to explore what was really important to us all.
Distinctions allow us to see differently. It is only with new eyes that we can have access to new actions and ultimately different results.